Should we hesitate to do something. Consider a boy in love with a girl, he hesitates to express himself to this girl. It becomes that this happens to the girl as well. Will they ever meet with a joyful union soon. The sooner the express they will. Otherwise, they will continue their life empty-handed.
The above is a plot of lots and lots of tamil movies. The guy hesitates to express his feelings towards his beloved. The movie - Idhayam - this movie is a classic for the love not told. The protagonist in the movie also fears the moment of reckoning. In one thrilling scene, he inserts a love letter in a book that he gives his beloved. The beloved is actually in sorrow for her sister has committed suicide (afraid of failing in love). Hero feels this is not the right moment to express himself - fear of rejection for the whole life. He pulls out the letter just when everything is about to blow. Finally the beloved gets hold of hero's journal and is pretty happy as she also reciprocates the feeling. But hero, fearing of rejection due to his journal falling in her beloved's hand is faced with a severe heart-attack.
In climax, the doctor says that the hero cannot accept any overtly good or overtly bad news. Because of this the heroine (beloved) is unable to express herself. She fears he will die due to overt happiness. The film ends with a note - may be in future - these two will express themselves and live happily everafter.
To my mind - only one quote - comes up -
It is common sense to take a method and try it. If it fails, admit it frankly and try another. But above all, try something.If the hero has just tried initially without such commotion and fear, he could have gotten through the failure just like that. The fear which grew inside made him weak to face a challenge. Will he be able to face a new challenge. I guess fear is worse than "the Poison Tree" which only creates enemies, but fear ruins your ability to live life.
There's only one thing in life to fear, but fear itself.Fear to face life is worse than fearing in trying a new food, because fear to face life ruins life. Fear on food just alters your apetite. But trying new food without fear can change the way you look at life and encourage you on the path of living without fear.
Best treatment for fear - face it, it won't fear you no more.
Just think..........
